Showing posts with label boobs remarks rudeness men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label boobs remarks rudeness men. Show all posts
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Excuse me, Sir?
Last night I was invited to a house warming party for one of my sorority sisters. I had just gotten off of work at midnight and wanted to freshen up and change before going. Originally I had on a very revealing top, but that didn't matter much at work because I have a uniform shirt. So, I went home and changed into a t-shirt that was less revealing. I knew the host and one other person that was there. I usually try not to draw attention to my chest because, well, they are kind of like a big deal. For those that actually read my blog I just posted about my love hate relationship with my boobs. The attention men like to throw at them does not flatter me at all. Any how, I get to the party and she introduces me to some of her coworkers, most of them just happen to be males. We get into a conversation about sobriety. At this point I had only had one drink, even though it was strong I could hold it pretty well(I am not an alkie!). One of the guys is absolutely intrigues by the fact that I can handle my liquor so well. He says I must be a camel. I find that remark funny so I add " I guess I keep it in my hump". Then he throws in "which one?". I swiftly put him in his place because A. He didn't know me; B. It's rude to comment on someones body; and C. I found it extremely disrespectful. He apologized and I accepted his apology but it made me view him differently. Was I wrong? I know I'm good for going off on someone for coming out of their mouth the wrong way, but when it comes to me and my body I can be extra fierce. I feel like I have every right. We ended up mending our differences and had a great rest of the night.
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